Does the idea of strapping on a dildo - or having your partner strap one on - make your heart go pitter-pat?  That isn't so unusual, considering the number of times columns on pegging get viewed as soon as they show up on discussion forums. If your partner is completely against anal play, or okay with anal, but not with pegging, you might find some helpful tips on forums.  It is always good to get the perspectives of people who have tried something or have reasons to not try something, so you can be clear with yourself and your partner what you want to try and don't want to attempt. From the boards: [More]