In general, I'm not one for an anal lube that has any desensitising agent in it - I would far prefer that you take your time, relax, and ease into anal play. And I would still remind you that if you use a product that numbs you a bit, you need to be extra aware of everything that is going on with yourself and your partner, as it will less easy to notice any damage that is going on. That said, however, Golden Girl Anal Jelly is getting such great reviews that I really do have to mention it here, I think. With four reviews and a five star rating, this is definitely a lube that is working for some people.  [More]